Love

Love....There is a lot of different kind of loves out there...

how a person love his/her friends...

how a person love his family...

how a person love his hobby..

how a person love his...something...

But when we talk about love

The first thing that come into our mind

is

the love between 2 people that cannot live without each other

Everyone wants love and they deserve it. 

But what is hard about love is finding the right person.

For a single guy (yes, that me...I'm single...for a very long time..), love is everything I hope for. But things just never happen they way you wanted, most of the times its my fault.

I'm not an expert in this thing. I only have 1 relationship before, and it ended terribly. So, why am I talking here like an expert? Because I want to convince myself (yes, this post is for me...)

My Friends always say that I'm think to much when come to girls. I actually think everything, from being together all the way until death. I want to know if we can last or not. I want think about how can we live together in the future. What kinds of problem, I'll face if we are together those sort of things..

And I have some rules about girl friends...

RULE 1: Never become the 3rd Person...

Explanation : If a girl has a boyfriend, its off-limits.

Reason : Who loves love triangles? the 3rd person is always the bad guy...

RULE 2: The Platinum Rule

Explanation : One should never date someone seen on a regular basis, e.g. someone at the same workplace, a next door neighbor, etc. because such relationships never work out in the end and lead to never-ending suffering, as those involved would see each other constantly. Proposed by Barney Stinson

Reason : Let's say that you are in a relationship with a classmate, then you two broke up, but you still have to see him/her everysingle day for class....how awkward can it be?

RULE 3: The Rebound Guy~

Explanation : if a girl had just broken up in the last month, its off-limits. Maybe she just use you as an replacement or just to win her break-up

Reason : You never know if she/her really loves you....

RULE 4: The Cooling down...

Explanation : According to science, love can be see as a hormone induced reaction that can make you make un-rasional decision. The hormone will make you think she/he is perfect by making you unaware of flaws. The hormone will wear off in a few months..

Reason : Don't do un-rasional decision...

RULE 5: Never stop believing...

Explanation : There are 6 billion people out there....you will find your one....SOON

So, am I too picky? or I just think and consider too much?